SERIOUSLY, Why is this considered shallow?! (10 points for best answer!)?

Don't even worry, not shallow at all! Almost any girl would jump at the opportunity to have a sweet and hot guy. Anyone that says your shallow is probably just jealous because you are good enough to get a guy like that. I mean the fact that those are the only two things you care about make you kind of the opposite of shallow. Tons of girls have lists, and wont date a guy because one of the things you mentioned above. Don't lower your standards and settle, be happy. Good Luck!